You don't necessary have to like or dislike someone . . . .

Greetings!

At different stages of our life, we have different views of what are happening around us.  We handle whatever happens from where we are at.  As we look back at our life, most of us have our moment of regrets, and wish we could have handled a certain situation / relationship differently.

Here are some words of wisdom from my guides and angels.

"Just wish him well.  Send him away with good wishes."
(For example, he has deep feelings for you, but you don't feel the same towards him.)

"See, if there is no judgment - you don't necessary have to like or dislike someone.  You just love whoever comes onto your path.  When you form judgment, it will be very easy to result in a karmic reaction.  There is no punishment.  It (life) is about understanding.  We will look at a life experience differently the minute we understand or realize the truth.  We will see the wonders of all experiences.  (Love as God loves, non-judging and unconditional.)

It is alright to react with a certain mood such as happy, surprise or even upset.  Face it, this is what life is all about.  But then, we discern ourselves from the feeling and observe it with tranquility.

Be happy for any experience.  There is no good or bad experience.  Life is a learning lesson.  Every day we face life with curiosity or with the eyes of wonder like a child.   For instance, when children fall down, some cry while others may laugh because it is a new experience.  There is no right or wrong reaction, and each will move on."

Let me share with you an experience.  The other day while I was working I rolled my eyes at . . . and right away I observed my action and burst out laughing.  I rolled my eyes at myself simply because I was a little bit clumsy in doing my job!  How busy was my mind judging the self and others!  Can this be an example of discerning ourselves from the feeling and observe it with tranquility?  Well, I don't know.  It may be you can be the judge.  (Hey, remember don't judge!!! Just kidding.)

We live, learn and go through many experiences or lessons.  From the human point of view, it is hard to see all our experiences as positive or valuable since we don't see the whole picture or the true reason why this or that happens.  The best we can do is be the loving essence that we are - love ourselves, love others, at times laugh at our own follies if we err, adjust our views, and correct our actions if we can.

Love and Peace,
Q of D

We have to try our best every life; Aim high and do your best

Greetings!

One Sunday after service, I went to talk to the speaker: "You are a very good teacher. I really enjoy your talk.  I wish you would teach more or speak more often at church."  I also asked for his words of wisdom. With sparks in his eyes, this brother said: "I have been doing this (teaching) for many lifetimes.  You know, we have to try our best every life.  Aim high, don't aim low.  Aim high and do your best."

This brother is a scientist, a computer expert, an ambassador of an UFO organization, an international speaker, a spiritual teacher, a priest, a wonderful healer (Reiki Master) and many more.  He is good in all that he does.  He also sings and acts.  When he performs, he is totally into it.  He brings lots of joy and laughter to the audience.

Aim high, don't aim low.  Aim high and do your best.  It is no wonder he is successful in all that he does.  Aim high and do your best.  When he says it, it sounds very easy. But is it?  To my understanding, he cultivated that kind of attitude for many lives and tried his best every life.  That is why he is where he is at or he is how he is now.

What he said that day caused me to think if I had tried my best this life. What about you, my friends?  It is never too late to start "aim high and do your best".

Peace,
Q of D