Wednesday, October 28, 2026

Amazing Synchronicities & the Two F in the little tune in the air

Greetings!

About nine months ago, I woke up hearing a little tune.  Normally, I heard/perceived a short series of musical notes repeatedly going on in the air.  The little tune was longer than that.  I hummed the tune into my phone thinking that there might be a good chance to find the title.  The top three results were with 11% to 7% matched.  I listened to the top two, and did not hear anything similar to the tune.  The third one was a kids' song with 7% matched.  I stopped listening to it after a brief while.  The children song began with animal actions, and the beats did not match the little tune at all.  I searched again.  'No match, try again' appeared on the screen of my phone.  I let it go.
Growing up, I listened to Chinese music/songs.  I did not know English nursery rhymes/children songs.  My older sister listened to popular English songs in her teens.  Though I was not into English songs as she did, I must have picked up a lyrical phrase or two when she turned on the radio.  That was the cause of a few interesting twists when the 'Music in the Air' phenomenon began some 25 years ago.  For example, one morning I woke up hearing music, and found out from midomi.com that the song was Sukiyaki.  I knew Sukiyaki was a Japanese dish, and wondered  Why did I wake up hearing a song about Japanese food?  On another morning, I knew the music was I can't help falling in love.  The words in the title were the only lyrics that I knew.  When I began to hear/perceive it during the day, I finally looked up the lyrics.  I was surprised that the song began with 'Wise men say only fools rush in'.  I eventually sang the song with my own words - 'Wise men say follow the pathway of love, let love within guide you in all you do . . ' 
I loved listening to music, but was not into remembering the lyrics.  My mind was selective as what to remember.  For example, I had woken up to Sukiyaki and Red Valley River (a song that I did not know) a few times over the years.  To this day, I still could not recall the tune of these two songs at will.  If I happened to hear Red Valley River in the morning, I had to search on my phone.  It was only then I realized that I had heard it before.  A lot of times I also did not remember the names of the characters in a movie.  When we talked about a movie afterward, I said the main actor/actress or the woman in a yellow dress.  I remembered the story but not names.  My family did not know what to make of it.  Of course, it would be easy for me if we watched Wonder Woman or Superman movies.  😄😄😄
It was not the case with the little tune.  I remembered the tune.  During the following weeks and months, I heard it once in a while as I came out of my sleep.  When I searched with my phone, the top results were different every time with low percentages matched.  In others words, I had listened to many possible matches.  However, none of them was remotely close to what I heard.  I thought I might never find a match to the tune.  In time, sometimes I heard the little tune in the air while I was on the computer.  It was probably because I was familiar with the tune.

One morning, I heard the tune again.  I used my phone to search.  I was surprised to see the same children song appeared as the third possible match.  The top two music were different from the other times.  Nothing in the first two music was close to what I heard.  Then I listened to the children song.  The children song began with animal actions such as Fish can swim and birds can fly, Monkeys climb and kangaroos jump high, and so on.   Then the song continued by asking a question "What can you do?"  I was amazed that 'the answer' was fun and spiritual.  And, the tune of these lines was close to what I heard!

I can believe in all my dreams
for I know I can make them real
I can forgive and then forget
Cuz 
I believe in LOVE

As the Queen of Dreams (nickname only), I could not help but smiled when I sang 'I can believe in all my dreams for I know I can make them real'.  I had since sung this little tune quite often.  The way I sang it was slightly different from the children song.  I always sang 'Cuz I believe in Love' two or three times instead of just once, and with much joy from my heart.  I could feel my energy vibrating in joy especially above and around my head and heart area.  (I would have attached an audio of how I sang this little tune, but did not know how to do it.)  

Below is the link to the song on YouTube.

I remembered when I saw those words in the video on YouTube for the first time, I thought "How interesting it is that the children song teaches forgive and then forget!"  Other than that, I did not think much of the thought or my reaction to forgive and forget. 

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After I published Be Observant of Our Surroundings, and Trust Our Instincts, I wanted to share this experience.  I typed in the title The Little Tune In the Air.  I thought writing the post would be easy.  All I had to do was to relate how I found the spiritual words in a children song.    

I decided to relax.  I turned on the TV.  I watched Chinese movies and videos that I liked on YouTube.  Sometimes the human I thought I should be more focused in writing the blog.  However, from my experience, it never worked if I forced myself to finish a post.  
It might seem I spent too much time on the mundane stuff.  In many ways, I was (am) an ordinary person living an ordinary life.  Since I was ordinary / my life was ordinary, it was easy for me to relate to others.  In I Meet Kind People All The Time , the man kindly offered to load the 24-pack bottled water into my car trunk; then he offered to push my shopping cart to the cart corral that was not near where I parked.  This happened because we had a short conversation on sports.  
Here came the amazing synchronicities that explained to me about the importance of forgive and then forget.

A couple of days later, I was on my computer watching YouTube videos.  At one point, I thought of watching videos of Bashar channeling.  (Darryl Anka had been channeling Bashar's wisdom for four decades.  If you want to know more about Darryl Anka or Bashar, please search online.  Bashar's teaching was very special because he explained spiritual laws / spiritual matters in ways that most of us could understand/relate to.  Though I found his wisdom/teaching profound and interesting, I only watched his channeling videos once in a while.  
Nowadays, we might be glued to a chair watching videos or reading books for hours, but at the same time, more videos were uploaded to the Internet or books were published than we could catch up.  The me now felt it was not necessary to know more or read more.  Observing what happened around me, appreciating nature and people, taking a walk, and singing brought me joy.   Life Must Be Experienced .  I had learned to relax and let life unfold in divine time in its magical ways.  
I keyed in Bashar channeling in the search box.  Immediately, a video titled Bashar Explains the council of 9 Control Everything You Experience caught my attention.  I wondered who were the nine beings on the council of 9 and how they controlled everything we experienced.  

To my recollection, the video began with someone asking a question about the council of 9.  Bashar said the council of 9 did not mean nine individual beings.  He explained that we could view the council from different perspectives such as -

     9 Oversouls of oversouls that had everything to do with our experiences on earth, 
     9 cosmic powers that controlled our reality, or 
     9 frequencies that controlled everything we experienced.

I had copied down the link to that video, but could not find the video now.  The video was over an hour long.  Bashar spent about 17 to 18 minutes explaining the council of 9.  Then he moved on to answer other questions.  I stopped watching the video at that point (i.e. after about 18 minutes), and was drawn to another video right after.  On the screen of that video was a list of the 9 Powers / frequencies that Bashar said 'we have' as in the previous video.  In Bashar's words, we have the power to - 

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                                                         Experience
                                                         Reflect
                                                         Learn
                                                         Grow
                                                         Transcend
                                                         Forget (starting anew)
            
Seeing the word 'forget' on the second video reminded me of the children song.  Bashar said 'forget is the last on the list but certainly not the least; you have the power to the idea of starting anew, starting afresh.'  

I could not find the two videos I had watched.  Luckily, there were other videos of the same channeling on YouTube.  Below are two of the links -  

I had written a few posts on forgiveness.  Bashar's words made me realize that there was far more to forgive and forget in our experiences on earth. 

The next day I decided to watch Bashar channeling videos again.  I was delighted to see that there were many short videos of Bashar talking about forgiveness.  It seemed to me that Bashar had talked about forgiveness on different occasions.  

Below were excerpts from some of the short videos.  These excerpts seemed to be similar.  I chose to include more than one excerpt because different wordings might appeal to different people.  

Bashar's teaching on 'forgive and forget/letting go'    

Everything you choose to do will have in physical reality some form of consequence or some form of outcome; even in what you call afterlife, you've heard the term the life review.  Forgiveness of self and forgiveness of others can actually neutralize the experience of a consequence generated through a negative act.  So that even in physical life and even in life review if that gets cancelled out by forgiveness, the person will not have the experience of the consequence of a choice they made that might have a negative consequence.  This has the profound effect of allowing you to be free to forgive yourselves and others and come back into alignment." 

Forgiveness as a state of being is actually vibrationally, mechanically doing.  When you are in a state of forgiveness, you are forgiving yourself and forgiving others.  It actually is a vibration that has the ability to actually neutralize the negative consequence of a negative choice someone may have made." 
                                     
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Forgiveness is not about condoning actions, but about releasing yourself from the vibration of anger, pain, and limitation.  By letting go (forget), you free your energy, raise your vibration, and align more deeply with you higher self.

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Forgiveness is a state of being that can actually mitigate the effects of the consequences of a negative act.

Forgiveness of yourself, forgiveness from others, and forgiveness to others is actually a vibrational state that will mitigate the effect of the consequence of a negatively intentioned act.  So the more forgiveness you can create for yourselves, the more you can forgive others, the more you can even the playing field and the less need for there is for you to experience the energy that is created by negative act.

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Forgiving others is forgiving yourself for having attracted the experience you don't prefer; in other words, forgiveness is freedom, otherwise, you are anchoring yourself to the negative experience and the negative energy.  (In this short video, Bashar ended by asking "Why would you want to do that?")

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Forgiving others is forgiving yourself.  Forgiveness is freedom.  Not forgiving is dragging an anchor behind you.

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Forgiveness is breaking the chain to something that happened in the past.  This is where we began our understanding and practice of neutrality for any kind of consequence by a choice that might have been negative in our ancient past.  That combine with the understanding and awakening into the idea that is most often referred to as lucidity.

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Forgiveness mitigate the effect of the consequence of the intentional negative act.  It is not about excusing.  Forgiveness is about breaking the chain to the past so that you don't continue to manifest that experience in your present energy.

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Here is a link to one of the short videos on forgiveness on YouTube.


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After I typed in The little tune in the air as the title, I decided to relax.  I watched movies and videos.  It was of no coincidence that it came to me to watch Bashar's channeling.  These amazing synchronicities helped me to understand the importance of forgive and forget.  Indeed, I was never alone; my spirit guides, angels, and higher self were actively present in my life supporting me, guiding me, and inspiring me.  In gratitude of their love, I spent some time listening to Night Vision - Pieces of A Dream on YouTube, the music that I had proclaimed as my link to the Loving Divine. (Re 'Night Vision - Pieces of A Dream' - an incredible phenomenon )  As I immersed myself in music, a new title came.

Amazing Synchronicities & the Two F in the little tune in the air

Before I end this post, I would like to talk about 'Forgiveness as a state of being'.  

Many of us who were into spirituality knew the importance of love.  At the same time, if we were being truthful to ourselves, most of us had come to know it was easier said than done to stay in the state of love all the time loving everything, ourselves, and others.  The same could be said of Forgiveness as a state of being.  Sometimes we thought we had forgiven self or others.  However, when situation arose, our old emotion/reaction came back.  

True forgiveness came from the heart.  With the understanding of what forgiveness truly is, I felt hopeful that we could get to that state by constantly practicing what we had learned.  If somebody triggered my old negative reaction be it that I was right or wrong, I would remind myself 'I have the power to choose to forget'.  

Let us remember the more forgiveness we can create for ourselves, the more we can forgive others, the more we can even the playing field and the less need for there is for us to experience the energy that is created by negative act.

Many Blessings,
Q of D
       

Thursday, September 17, 2026

In divine order, a short post with a link to another post

Greetings!

I have been working on another post.  Suddenly, I wanted to look up a post on 'life is full of surprises'.  I did not know why I felt that I should search for post(s) on this subject.

The search result showed two posts.  The titles of those two posts did not include the word 'surprises'.  I chose to read one of the posts.  As I read the post, I realized it might be in divine order to put a link to that post TODAY.  Someone/others might find comfort in reading the post.  

Love Never Ends       


Many Blessings,
Q of D

P. S.  The other post on the search result was He said, "You are sincere . . . ."


Saturday, August 29, 2026

Be Observant of Our Surroundings, and Trust Our Instincts

Greetings!   

It took me a long time to finish WHAT IS OUR FOCUS - part 2 .  Afterward, a few past experiences came to my mind.  A new school year would begin soon.  Many young people would soon go back to schools and universities.  Nowadays some people were so addicted to their phones that they looked at their phones while walking or even while crossing the road.  I decided to share these experiences.  

When I was with the Thursday Circle (last Thursday of May, 2005 to August, 2007), the teacher of the circle had said 'As light beings, we attract other light beings as well as those that are of darkness.  We should be alert wherever we are . . .'  While we should not live in fear, it was important for us to be observant of our surroundings.

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Please note that these experiences happened before the restaurant years and before I joined the Thursday Circle.  In other words, I had not yet learned about spirit guides and angels.

One winter morning, I was on my way to work.  After a few miles on the main roads, I had to continue driving on a 2-lane road.  There was a huge, abandoned old facility on the side of the road that I was driving.  Trees lined up the other side of the road.  It was a quiet morning.  My car and an old utility truck were the only cars on the road.  There was no incoming car from the other direction.  

I always kept a safe distance from the car ahead of me.  I was alarmed when I saw the men sitting at the back of the utility truck seemed to turn their heads to look at me.  Then a man on the left side stuck out his head and part of his body to look at me.  Immediately, I stepped on the brake.  The truck slowed down dramatically as if wanting me to drive past them since there was no incoming traffic.  I did not move forward.  The truck moved to park on the side of the road.  Two men came out of the truck, and signaled for me to drive past them.  I remained where I was.  They seemed to be surprised.      
Though my heart was pounding, I knew the importance of staying calm and quick thinking.  I thought the men could run out to stop my car if I drove forward to where they were; most people would not want to run over other people, and I certainly did not want that to happen.  I thought of making a U-turn, but they could do the same to follow me since we were the only two cars on the road.    
The two men went back into the truck.  They drove to the traffic light at regular speed.  They stopped at the traffic light.  The light was green, but they did not move forward or make a turn.  I saw two cars coming in the other direction.  The traffic light turned red.  The two incoming cars stopped before the light.  I saw two more cars coming in the other direction.  There was still no car behind me.  I drove forward, and stopped at a distance behind the truck.  I could see the men in the truck continued to watch me.  
I was going to make a right turn (that was my route to work).  I did not turn on the turn signal because I did not want them to know what I would do.  I knew they could not make a U-turn once they past the traffic light because there were cars in the incoming lane.

When the light turn green, the truck moved forward.  Once I saw the truck past the intersection, I sped up and turned right.  In the corner of my eyes, I saw the truck abruptly stopped on the road.  I drove as fast as I could.  There was no car in front of me.  I looked at the rear mirror to make sure the utility truck was not following me.  After a couple of miles, I finally took a deep breath.  

This incident took place years before cell phones became common.  I had not begun to write down what happened in my life.  I believed I used another route to go to work after this incident.  (I only started to write down some of the things that happened in my life after 'Night Vision - Pieces of a Dream' - an incredible phenomenon )

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When our sons were small, we used to shop for groceries in the morning on the day that my husband did not have to go to work.  (He usually had Tuesdays off.)  In the afternoon, sometimes my husband drove us to a park in a city that was not near where we lived.  It was a big park.  There were many different areas with spaces for parking next to them.  We usually stayed in the playground for children for a couple of hours, and left for a nearby restaurant around 5 p.m.  

One afternoon we were in the park.  For quite a while, our family of four were the only people in that area.  Our sons were having fun getting on swings, slides, monkey bars, and etc.  Later, I saw an old, rusted van parked in the area next to where we were.  Two men came out of the van.  They looked unkempt, and were in their 40 s or 50 s.  One of them got a ball from the back of the van.  They stood about 15 feet apart, and began throwing the ball to one another.  The size of the ball was like a basketball, but it was not a basketball.  I found it weird that two grown men came to the park to play throw and catch.  I observed their attention was not on the ball.  They looked on and off to an area farther down the park where a teenage girl was alone sitting on a swing.  She sat there with her head down, and seemed to be deep in thought.  Before 5 p.m., my husband came to ask me if it was time to leave.  I said we would stay a bit longer.  When he came to ask me for the second time, I quietly told him what I saw.  My husband observed for a while, and agreed with me that the men might have bad intention.  A while later, our sons said that they were somewhat hungry.  I told them to play some more, and we would leave soon.  Luckily, a little bit before 6, the teenage girl stood up, left the park, and walked across the wide road  to go home.

In retrospect, if our family were not in the park that afternoon, the men might have parked their van close to the girl, and kidnapped her.  Seeing us there, they might have purposely chosen to stay in the area next to the children playground.  If something happened to distract us/the parents, one of our sons could be in danger.  If I walked all the way to warn the girl, she might leave the park right away; however, it would be obvious to the men that I had something to do with it.  We never knew what they would do or if they had guns in their van.  It was a good thing that I let things unfold as it had, and had not thought of those possible scenarios.        

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One night after closing up, my husband said we needed to go to a store to buy something for the restaurant.  

As we entered, I saw seven to eight people standing in the area between the entrance door and the door into the store.  It was not uncommon to find people standing there.  Some could be waiting for family that were shopping.  Others might be there waiting for someone to pick them up.  However, a group of three men immediately drew my attention because I saw them exchanged eye signals when they looked at us.  I did not say anything to my husband because it might mean nothing.  Some people were just not that used to seeing people that were different from them.  We bought what we came for.  We walked to the area that we came in.  My husband had parked the car over that area of the parking lot.  The three men were still there. I saw them exchanged eye signals again.  As we were about to walk out of the door, they began to walk behind us.  I raised my right hand and lightly knocked at my forehead.  I said (in English), "Oh, I forget to buy something!  We need to go back!"  Then I said the same in Chinese in a low voice to my husband.  Of course, my husband, believing that I had really forgotten to buy something, gave me his impatient look.  The men stepped back to where they had been standing.  We walked back inside the store.  I told my husband what I saw.  We hurriedly walked to the exit at the other end of the store.  It was a distance to get to where we parked our car.  Quietly, we got inside and drove home. 

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As I was writing, I remembered some incidents that happened after we moved back to this state.  

I loved to take pictures of the sun and the night sky.  Sometimes I went out to the school fields at night to take pictures of the moon and the stars.  One late evening I decided to take a walk because I had stayed in the apartment almost the whole day.  I walked out of the apartment building, I saw a man stepped out of a car.  I did not think much of it.  I walked into the school field.  The man walked in too.  I turned to look at him.  He said, "Hi, you are taking a walk too."  I did not know him, but said 'Hi' in return.  He seemed to know that I was somewhat alarmed.  He started to walk forward across the field of grass, and not on the tracks that I normally did.  I began to walk on the track.  The thought 'it was indeed too dark/late to go for a walk' came.  I turned to walk home.  As I was about to walk out of the school field, I heard the man said, "Hey, you are leaving!  You used to walk longer than that!"  His words shocked me.  Soon the man came out and rushed to his car.  Before he did, he was surprised to see that I was staring at him by the apartment building.  He murmured something like 'it was too cold to walk', and hurriedly drove away.  He was a white man in his 30 s or 40 s.  I took note of his car.  I did not see his car again.    

On another night, I suddenly heard the sound of a bike rushing at high speed toward me from a distance.  I ran as fast as I could out of the school field.  The second I got to the parking lot, I looked back at the entrance of the school field.  A black man in his 20 s wearing a dark colored hoodie was on a bike staring at me.  Then he went away.

After these two incidents I did not go to the school field at night anymore.  If I really wanted to, I asked my son to go with me.  It was not about fear.  Yes, I knew my angels and guides were with me.  However, we were (are) responsible for our own well-being, and it was not worth it to put ourselves in harm's way.

One night a few years ago, I came home around ten after going to a gathering.  I saw a man came out of another apartment building to throw away trash.  When I got out of my car, he came to talk to me.  He introduced himself, and kept talking for quite a while.  I listened.  I knew it was not a chance meeting but a planned one.  When I was home, I told my son about it.  I also told him that I felt there was something wrong with this person.  My son said I was judgmental.  I said, "That was how I felt.  Gut instinct was not a judgment."  Later, my intuition about this person proved to be right.  I would not get into the details.  The situation was not serious.  I handled it calmly and firmly.   My son said, 'Mom, you were right!'  I said, "We all have these instincts or gut feelings from time to time, but we often choose to ignore them.  Trusting our intuition helps us to stay away from bad situations or bad people."  

It was indeed important to trust our intuition.

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During the restaurant years, a car hit our car hard from behind.  (Re What do we do when we have dreams of fear )  The insurance company said it would take a lot of money to fix the car; they said it was an old car, they would only pay us the market value of the car.  With limited money, the auto shop fixed what were necessary so that we could still drive around; no body work was done to fix the back of the car.   One day, while filling air for the tires at the side of a gas station, a van came to park next to us.  Three men came out.  They approached us saying they would fix our car for free if we followed them to their garage in XXXXXXX, a city in another county.  One look at them, even my husband could feel they were not good people.  We declined to go with them, and they drove away.  We were not in fear because the gas station was part of the commercial complex of a big store we went to regularly.  There was traffic in and out of the gas station.  Later we went to the store.  We made sure the van was nowhere in sight as we parked our car.

Those men said they would fix our car for free.  They could have approached other people before, and he/she might have followed them to their garage.  Sometimes people went missing without a trace.  It was important for parents to teach their children that 'If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is', and 'do not get into a stranger's car'.  Many parents might have told their children to stay away from drugs.  However, I had heard that some students began to use drugs when they were in middle school.  Some wanted to blend in because their friends used drugs.  Some might go to a party, and saw their friends using drugs.  It might help to let the children know that they should call home anytime they felt uncomfortable in a friend's house or in a party, and the parents/mom/dad would pick him/her up.  Sometimes they might not be able to talk freely.  It might help to have the mutual understanding as what to say to indicate that they wanted to go home.  For example, during a conversation, the youngster could say 'Oh, tell Aunt Patty I wish her a happy birthday' while the family did not have an Aunt named Patty.  It was important that the parents always knew / demanded to know where their children were and who they were with.

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I share with you these experiences to show the importance of living in the now, be aware of our surroundings, and trust our intuition.  However, I do not mean for us to live in fear.  I am grateful for my life on Earth.  I have met many wonderful people as mentioned in I meet kind people all the time and Growing old in Grace .  And I will always remember the strangers in The Good Samaritans .

Fall is here.  Enjoy the colors of nature!

Many Blessings, 
Q of D